Graduation dinner

本來打算用英語來寫部落格的...太差了想寫多點好像能進步...哈
但這篇就算了,用華語比較容易表達我想表達的...
對這次發生的,對個人來說是人生裡比較特別的事...
大專學業生涯裡最後一天的課,就好像標題一樣,graduation dinner...
說是最後一天...我還是遲到了...但是老師也是一樣懶了,我進班休息了一會就掰了 =.=''
還真是無言 @@
這次的分離,讓我覺得比較不一樣...
不像以前,這次大家真的有個走個的路了...
就個人走到了終點感覺與之前中途下車或升班不一樣,因為就是有了一班一起走完的朋友...
轉系來到這一班感覺很不一樣...
在之前的科系,沒有那種很融洽的感覺...
不是他們不友善或不好相處或人不好...
就沒有一個完整體...也許以前還小吧,哈...
來到了這一班,全部人都相處的很好...全部說話超敢的,很多時候真的躺著也會中槍...哈
也很多笑料...團結,也算吧...哈...就沒什麼事有暴動戰爭的...友善的班...
這次的聚餐,是除了上課與考試以外,有全班一起出席的活動...一個都沒少...
有網購優惠卷,去了挺高級的餐廳用餐...
全部人都打扮的超好看的....
過後還有去遊樂場...
然後唱卡拉OK...
還真希望有好的歌喉誒 =.=''
有的朋友簡直是沒唱 =.=''
玩到很夜...也拍了不懂多少張照片...
隔天還得去預購飛機票 =.=''
無敵累...
但是真的很難忘的回憶...
還有讓我覺得比較不一樣的是...畢業後,與他們見面的難度會比較高...
大家的家鄉都不同地方...之前的同學大部分都是留在或者住在同一個城市裡...
而且,那晚也突然,想通了一些事情...變得稍微有些清醒和有些明確...
接下來剩下的是去英國的事了...
以後會怎樣真的不曉得,但是活好現在比較靠譜...哈

看過一句話...
沒有偶然的事,有的是必然...
我們全部能遇到,一定有原因...
而且現在這個時代...
基本上來說應該不會斷聯的吧,開個面書保持聯絡簡直不是問題...
畢業了,全部需要好好照顧自己啦...
有緣自然又會再相聚 ~

Pillow talk

Friends overnight at my place...
Surprisingly, had a quality pillow talk...
The friend who talk with me, a very good friend of mine...
Talked a lot of stuffs,mainly is something positive...
Maybe he sense that I not positive enough and many trouble inside my mind....lol
One of the topic we talked is about decision making...
He asked me, how I make decision in the case that it is decisive in the future..
For example, if I was going to launch a best phone, should I choose to create it with touchscreen or keypad?
The example he gave is just trying to visualize the question clearly...and I get it...
Then he continued, actually the decision we choose wasn't the most important factor that changing our future, but the attitude...
If the phone you choose to create is the fail one, so you just have to follow the successful one or think out a better idea then thing will be solved...
However, even the one you chosen is the successful one, if you don't have the correct attitude, in the end it is also meaningless...
It remind me of the time when I going to make decision...the moment he asked me, I found that I don't know how actually I make those decision...
And he told me...shouldn't blame or regret the decision we made...
It just like, many people always say shouldn't take the option A and things will get better if take option B...
The fact is, no people know how thing will go on even the decision that time is the another one...
I know that I often make this mistake too...People make the wrong decision, and I go and tell the person he shouldn't do like this....stupid me...lol
Not only in our textbook or study, even life, there no right or wrong answer...
Overall, is like the quote " Your attitude, not your aptitude, will determine you altitude."

He said, sometime it is useless if we worry too much...
One of his method to solve problem is...It is helpful if he worry, if not then he will not think it anymore...
Like after we submit our exam papers, we found that we do it wrongly...So?
The only way to stop worry is get back the paper and change our answer, theoretically it is impossible...
There always something that worry doesn't help and we still worry bout it....
And sometimes the solution is actually very simple, just we over think it and make it complicated...
Seem like, I know what to do for what I thinking all these time...

Erm...also discussed some relationship problem...
What to do when people break up?
I often try not to get involved in people relationship problem actually...
As I was single all these years =.= and I'm not good at giving people advise or comfort them as they need...
The most I do is say something like...everything will be alright, you will find a better one, let go ..bla bla bla
Even I'm the one who say this I found that it is totally useless =.=''
Just some words to carry on the conversation or to make that moment not awkward ...
Don't want get involve is actually ... if i open my mouth and start talk about the relationship,surely I will stand on my friend's side...usually if break up the another one is someone I not familiar with...and might not fair to the person, and get things wrong.....
But in my mind...i will think about it too...like why the person can be so cruel or why so bad to my friend...
And he asked me,if in the future I met the same problem, what will I do...
I think I won't feel anything =.=...my mind seem like always in a static mood,neutral,calm....at least I think I wont cry or suicide...and if I really started a relationship, I think I'm the one will get dump by another one...lololol

Another topics that quite interesting is about multi-level marketing...(MLM)
Some sort like Amway or Cosway we familiar...
We both dislike this...
We both were being persuade to join last time,but we reject it....
The reason I hate this is maybe my stereotype on it and some past experience...
But my friend, clever him...he understand well about this and analyze it for me....
He told me what he saw when he being approach for another MLM program...
and I burst out laughing when heard certain parts, like a staff tell him there a old man that cant walk last time then now he able to walk after sitting for the chair for sometime......really rofl ...ridiculous =.=''
Some friends of us joined MLM last time...changed their life,some slightly and some major....
My opinion on this MLM is, you will lost your friend very fast.....
But if the people really dedicated and persistence, success just matter of time...
However, MLM have it life span too....So, if the MLM they join end,what they going to do even with a lot of money? A lot of people might resign their job, stop their study...join another MLM? start all over again?use the money to invest or start own business? but with the times spend in MLM, the knowledge and experience might not sufficient or even none =.=
Just a conversation between us, purely our opinion...things might not like this...lol

We talk very long...probably the longest pillow talk...
Without realize it, already 6am...
Alarm rang,gosh...leave me alone T.T
Anyway,good time...
To me, he a very wise friend, good temper, friendly, trustworthy..but I often pissed off him @@ he will forgive me anyway and still willing to help me at the end when I got trouble...haha...
Lucky to know someone like him....

Improvement needed...lol

Adios,assignment...

Finally, submitted the last assignment...

Seriously, dint feel any sadness even though it is the last one...

Only can feel tired...sacrificed my sleeping time to rush it before the submission deadline... last minute works, I think I deserved it =.=''

It been such a long time, sleep late due to do something which is really important...

Luckily, we able to finish it...now hope that it enough to make us go through this sem...

Suppose it is not difficult to do, but my teammate and I procrastinate too much...

Other friends was actually not surprise that we able to finish it...

One of them told me that they actually did discuss about my team progression...they found that it quite amazing we able to finish a tons of work in less than 24hrs, and happens in the past few sems too...but the outcome wasn't that bad,and sometimes not bad...

Legend, the new moniker for our team....lololol

But it really luck plays...and of course the helps provided from other classmates...We really appreciate it very much x80000000000....

When things come regarding assignments, my group was like being abandoned, not that serious type of abandon, just that we can't recruit new member or join others group... we are just average students,we hope someone wiser to lead us... and somehow I don't know why we were the group with only 4 peoples...a metaphor that we all are carry, self farm without soy sauce.....

To be honest, I did whine about this matter with my teammates, they feel me, I feel them too I think...but we know, it is not anyone faults....the whining just a short moment of abreaction...not blaming anyone or anything, we know everyone have their own problems.... If, we were the peoples which capable to choose their own teammate, me might react in the same manner too....So, to be fair, we know our problems too...

Even we did it last minute, we actually put a lot of efforts too... peoples often can saw us asking for help...really thanks to them who help us even they are very busy with their own stuffs...you all are really good guys....and, you all dint scold or complain on us...merci beaucoup...

Inner of us, might also hoping that we able to get as higher marks as possible too...but we dint realize it...

Anyway, everything done ...

Erm...how I think about my group...

We been through a lot of troubles...sometime I even goes bad temper...thanks for being considerate...and i feel very sorry about that...we actually working very well with each other, jokes around, coordinate well...not something proud, but we did get a result which is not bad even it is last minute work...and support each other very well...there some nuances among us in why we able to survive which cant explain, but we really a good team...appreciate you all...

瘋狂的事

很多人心裡都應該有很想做的事情...

搗蛋的事也好,或很正經的也好...

應該,有些和朋友一起做才有意義...

若瘋狂的事一個人沒那麼過癮...

有想過一些...

去點冰淇淋然後拿了就跑不付錢...

吃霸王餐...

看到頭髮染的很誇張的人跑過去說Get Your Crayon! ...

和陌生人假裝是熟人拍他一下...

猜拳輸的去和漂亮的女生拿電話..

電視劇裡每次也有看到的,推自己的朋友向他心儀的對象告白...

還有很多平時面書看到的惡作劇...想不起來怎麼寫 @@

這些都好像挺好玩的...

應該現在還算年輕的時候有的做就做...

雖然沒什麼意義的事情（告白例外),但是不是每件事情都需要意義才能做...

個人覺得是那樣...

好像就快畢業了...

真正開始踏入後讀書生涯的日子慢慢接近着...

三月,這個月...

真的需要對我好很多些啊...@@

March,please be good with me...lolx